How can someone get out of an abusive relationship?

So the question here is, "if I'm in an abusive relationship how do I get out of it as well as how do I stop having these types of relationships?"

One of the things I would tell you is that you're not alone. Unfortunately there have been many women and for that fact men in your same situation. That shouldn't diminish the fact that you're in this situation nor does it make it ok. 

You are the only person who can decide to get yourself out of this situation. One of the best resources that you can use is National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE, and their website is http://www.thehotline.org/2012/07/finding-resources-in-your-area/

The people at the National Domestic Violence Hotline can assist you in creating a plan to leave your abusive relationship safely.